About God and Prayers:  A Note from Joan Schoenfeld, Principal

 

Our older Hebrew classes have recently been engaged in dialogue about the significance of prayer.  Several of the most difficult questions Jewish people have struggled with over the ages -- such as “Does God hear my prayers?” and “Why do bad things happen to good people?” -- have been raised and discussed.  

 

Judaism provides no one definitive answer to these basic questions.  The Downtown Jewish Community School is inclusive and pluralistic in both philosophy and composition.   We serve a diverse community of Jewish families and our school is enriched by children and families representing a wide range of Jewish belief and practice.  We respect this diversity due to our deeply held conviction that there are many ways to be a Jew.

 

That being said, we are a Jewish religious school.  As such, we affirm the strong connection between Judaism and God.  We respect the many different conceptions of God within Jewish tradition while understanding that the ultimate concept of “God” is beyond human comprehension. 

 

We can only talk about God in human language.  To do so, we use metaphor.  In the literal sense, God has no gender, no arms to outstretch, mouth to speak or ears to listen.  Thus, the idea that “God hears your prayers” can also be understood as metaphor  For many Jews, prayer is not a vehicle for getting God to intervene in the world to cure a sick person or change who wins a game.  Prayer is neither magic nor a substitute for action.  Rather, prayer may strengthen our own hopes and our own efforts, help us clarify what we truly need, help connect us to our community, or simply heighten our own appreciation of the world around us.  (See further the handout by Seymour Rossel on “When a Jew Prays” and other quotes enclosed.)

 

As for why God allows bad things to happen, many people believe that God created people in God’s own image to complete and repair the world.  Disasters, illness, wars, etc. are not punishments from God.  They are caused by an element of chance/randomness in the world or by destructive human beings who have chosen to do evil.  Faith in God is what can give us the resources to cope with our loss and the resolve to choose good rather than evil -- to rebuild after a disaster, to care for the elderly, find a cure for disease, work hard for the best candidate, etc.

 

Rabbi David Wolpe uses the metaphor of light to describe his concept of God in Teaching your Children about God.

Light is a sign of God. When I speak to children in a sanctuary, I use the example of the eternal light hanging above the ark. Why is light a symbol of God? Because light itself cannot be seen.  What we see is not light, but light bouncing off other things – walls, clothes, faces, even particles in the air.

 

The same is true of God in this world. We cannot see God. God becomes real to us through other things. God becomes real through the beauty of the world, through the actions of people. But God’s self, God’s essence, remains invisible – or, really, intangible.

 

Just like light, like justice, like goodness, we cannot see God, but we can know God and bring God into this world. I cannot show you goodness, but I can show you an act of goodness. I cannot show you God, but an act of godliness makes God somehow tangible. That is our responsible in the partnership. We carry the light so that it can be seen.

 

Can you think of other metaphors for God?


Some Quotes on Prayer and God

 

 

Prayer is less about changing the world than it is about changing ourselves.  The Hebrew word for “to pray,” l’hitpallel, is reflexive.  The root means “to judge” or “to clarify,” so prayer is self-judgment or self-evaluation.  When we see what we pray for, we understand ourselves better.  With prayer, children can begin the great process of self-knowledge, which is so important to a life of spiritual depth.

Rabbi David J. Wolpe, Teaching Your Children About God

 

 

 

Berakhah is a fixed formula of blessing for the various situations in life. A Jew, partner in God’s covenant, is called upon to make his or her life authentic. He may not walk through his years routinely. He must develop kavanah, attunement, springing from an ever-renewed wonder at the work of creation and placing him in never-ending dialogue with God and the world. A Jew must feel himself addressed individually and constantly and may not shirk or evade his duty to respond.

Leo Trepp, Jewish Observance

 

 

 

Blessings keep our awareness of life’s holy potential ever present. They awaken us to our own lives, Every blessing says, “I am grateful to be a creature and to remind myself and God that life is good.”

Lawrence Kushner, The Book of Words

 

 

 

The rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk once asked his students, “Where does God dwell?” Thinking the answer obvious, one of them said, “ God dwells everywhere!” “No,” said the rabbi, “ God dwells wherever we let God in.”

          There is one more place we must teach our children to look for God. They must look, to be sure, on the beginning of things; and in the community. But it is also critical that each of us, including children, be able to look for God inside ourselves.

 

God is evoked inside of us when we demonstrate those qualities that we know God wishes us to exemplify in our lives: qualities of compassion and of conscience.

David J. Wolpe, Teaching Your Children about God

 

 


 

Thoughts on Prayer by Hebrew 4 Students

 

 

Why is Praying Important?

 

I think you pray to become closer to G-d or maybe if you want something or want to thank G-d or when someone is sick you can pray for that person to recover.  When praying you are trying to talk to G-d.  Also in the Torah it says you should pray, to respect G-d and to show we are Jews.

 

By Jacob

 

 

What Praying Means

 

We pray to God for help, thanks or forgiveness.  When I pray I think about nothing in particular.  When we pray we respect God and tell we are Jews.  Praying is a symbolic way of remembering.  Prayers have been passed on through the generations.

 

By Allison

 

 

What It Means to Pray

 

When you pray you get closer to God and thank God for everything, including food, shelter and comfort.  When I pray I think of God and people who died.  We pray because it is commanded in the Torah.  We respect things that are written in the Torah because it was written by G-d.

 

By Jesse

  
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